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| Letter to Me(Me) |
| Sunday, December 9, 2007 |
I've seen this on several sites, and though no one tagged me, because we have all moved pass the tagging movement, I too will participate. I encourage you too also. It is a great look back, putting incredible perspective on your past.
Dear Stephanie:
Hey Steph, it's you, 10 years older, and 20 lbs heavier! Which yes, means you are no longer Ethiopian looking, and people no longer call you "Annie"xeria, "Stick", or "Twig". Instead you now go by "Skittle" and more affectionately by Damian the ultimate love of your life "Skittle Bottom", "Honey Bunny", and my personal favorite "Stinky Booty." Yes, you have truly become a nerd, so get over it!
Well, the first thing I need to tell you is that you don't know it yet, but you are pregnant. Probably only about 2 weeks right now. You'll "know" before then, but find out for sure in January. It's a girl, and you'll name her Madison. The morning sickness starts immediately, so get used to it.
You already are suspicious that Chris is cheating on you with Michelle. Let me save you the trouble. He is! You'll find this out. You'll find letters, and lots of other proof. It will be too late though. You will have already married him. I guess if I could tell you to change anything it would be, on your wedding day, when you look at Dad and tell him "If we sneak out the back now, we'll be gone before anyone knows it" GO! DO IT! Dad will wish he had believed you then too. Remember this, Madison is not a mistake, but marrying Chris is.
When you find out you are pregnant, Mom will flip! She won't talk to you for several months. She won't be able to look at other babies without crying. She is hurt, and has to deal her way. Dad will be better, but he mostly just wants to keep peace. Jessie will be judgemental, and Mandy is young, so she'll be cool. You'll grow close to her through this. Nana will support you 100%, and you only have 11 months left with her. You will spend most of them with her, but sneak in as much extra as you can. She passes suddenly next year, so make this Christmas with her the best ever!
This coming year will be the toughest year ever. You will be miserable, and life will seem like it can't get worse. And it doesn't, it actually gets better.
You'll go through years of drinking, partying, and men. Whoa, slow down! You will regret most of it. And if you'll just be patient, you will meet the most wonderful man in the world, Damian. It'll be 7 or 8 years from now though. But be ready to think outside the box, Damian doesn't fit the "tall, dark & handsome" that you are expecting. I mean, he is dark & handsome, but quite a bit darker than you were thinking. He he.
Two more things. Don't turn your back on God. Things aren't always easy, and you really do need him. Life is easier when you have a good relationship with Christ. Don't worry, it's not too late...I just wish you would realize that now instead of 6 years from now.
And finally, start spending money wisely now, because 10 years later, you still suck at it! If you would start saving now, maybe I wouldn't be in this stupid apartment!
Okay, I really could go on forever! So here are a few quickies before I close...September 11, 2001 will change the world forever. November 25, 1998 will change your world forever.
Oh, yeah before I go...the spot on your left breast. It's not there now, but it will be in a couple of years. Have it removed immediately. I don't care what the doctor says. It isn't nothing, so get rid of it right away. If you wait 4 years it will have spread, and the surgeries will be less than pleasant.
Love,
SkittleLabels: Meme |
posted by Stephanie @ 9:37 PM  |
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Amazing letter. Hugs for all the hard times, and high fives for your strength. :)
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This was an excellent post, really well written. I applaud you skittle!
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I have decided to do this. It looks awesome.
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I love that I knew you then and I love that I still know you and am so proud of you, my friend!
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I'm so glad you did this meme too. Excellent job, and such a great glimpse of who you are and where you come from. (insert hugs here)
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What an amazing letter. (I am wiping tears!) If only we could have these "letters" in real life. :o)
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I really recommend everyone write one of these.
Prin: High Five to you too! You're going to make it
Joen: Thanks!
RS: Can't wait to read it.
Boss: It's been a long road, but I'm all the better for it.
Daszzle: Thanks for the hugs!
Shana: Oh, the heartache I could have been saved if I had received this letter 10 years ago.
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Great letter, I wish we could all do this in real life. I too am wiping tears!
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Don't do this to a post-preggo hormonal lady without warning her first!!! Sheesh.
But I agree with everyone else...if only we could actually have these letters in real life. It sure would save us alot of trouble (if we actually listened).
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About Me: Holy Crap I will be 29 soon! My friends and I are creating a before we turn 30 bucket list...hmmm what to add?
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Amazing letter. Hugs for all the hard times, and high fives for your strength. :)